How to face death

Death

the word may sound so harsh

and disastrous to many people

But in fact

there are deaths happening every minute in our world

So sooner or later

the bad news will visit one of us

but how do we face it

Thinking that he or she is going away for good

and not for bad

 we should be happy for them

But the fact that we are crying or feeling sorrow for such a loss

is that we don't really feel the loss of the dead one

but for our loss

we feel so attached to the dead one once they are dead

much more than when they are alive

We think that we can't do anything now that the person or animal is dead

but when it is alive , we never appreciate it

so instead of trying to figure out how to face the death of others

Just try to do what we can for  the alive ones

so that when the time really comes

we don't have to feel regret for the loss

as we have done everything we should have done for them

and when their time comes

we just have to smile for a farewell

and wish them good luck

for one day in the future

we will meet again

again

.....

How to stay young

It doesn't matter how old you are.

You can be in your twenties and feel so old

or in your sixties and still feel so young

So what really makes people feel young or old

Surely it's not the wrinkles on your face

or how slow or fast you do things

or your age that is printed on any documents you have to fill

The secret lies within you

It depends on how you feel

if you feel old , then you are old

if you feel young , then you are young

But the sad news is that

you can't fool yourself

Noticeably, whenever you decide to take up

any new activities in life

or new class at any age

you will suddenly feel young again

So here we go

the secret to stay young

is to

stay hungry for new knowledge

try something new

get out from your same old shoebox

and you will be young forever

At least your life won't be as borning as the days before

Right??

How to get through the darkest hour in life clock

I am sure this is the question

where many of us want to find the answers to

Of course , whatever the answer is

it is surely easier said and done

Advice such as

be strong

it too will pass

brighter path ahead

storm will clear up

there is always silver lining after storm

One will really understand it when one actually is in one of those darkest hour in life

and it surely doesn't have an easy way out

Those who give advice sometimes don't have the slightest idea

of what the darkness for the sufferer is

But when they are enduring the same or similar darkness

they will come to an understanding of how others might feel during those worst time of our life

Yes , there is no real solution of how to get through it

But one way to get through it with the least pain is

to accept it

live with the present  - not the future fear or the past regret

and if you live the moment

and come to an understanding and acceptance of what you are facing

somehow the pain will decrease tremendously

Just let it go

whatever you are enduring

Just put it down

the stone is only heavy when you are holding it especially with your shoulder

so you can't pass it if you are still carrying those anger , regret , frustration within your shoulders

just live the moment

and nothing else , not your thought nor your fear

and you will at least notice that for a moment

the pain has disappeared

( the bad news is that it will come back )

But at least

there will be time that you give yourself

a rest from the sorrow and  bad times 

if you can find the happiness in your so called darkest hour

that will be the light while you are waiting

for the sun to shine again

And of course

the sun will shine again



The test in life

An annoynymous told me today that

She is tired of fighting the battle of life

I didn't know what to say at the time 

But I am sure she will keep on fighting 

We all have to face the undesirable things in life 

Some more than the others

Sometimes it's so unbearable that we don't want to go on anymore

Or we may decide to leave it all behind

And try to find the easy way out

But actually there is no easy way out in life

If  we can't get through these obstacles

We will surely have to face it again and again in the future

Belive it or not 

All the sufferings or the obstacles 

We somehow choose it in our plan in this life

and hopefully that we can overcome it 

So we can be stronger and a better person 

It may be unbearable and we may think that we can't survive

through the storms of tests of life 

but once we pass it 

and looking back 

We will thanks all these tests in our path 

As it will make us the person we become today 

Good luck everyone ...

The End

One of the book  I have read once said that

you should live life from the end

As life is too short to wait to do something when you are ready

So whatever you want to do in life

Do it now

Not until you have no strength to do

Or you may die before doing the thing you really want to do in life

If you want to travel

Get out and enjoy the world before it's too late.

If you want to be with your loved ones

Just do it .

Seize today .

Live today as if it's your last.

We know and read so often

But we hardly put it into practice

Do we?

Think about what is really important for you and do it

Your time may not be left that much....