Sometimes we do something and expect that
we should receive the same kind of manner
but
when we don't get what we expect,
we get disappointed and even feel bad towards the person we give the favor to.
So the good feeling is turned into absolutely bad feeling.
If that is the case,
we should be better off staying alone
and not giving anyone a favor
as we will end up feeling upset ourselves.
But
if we just ignore any kinds of return from the favor we give,
we will feel much better from the act of our own kindness.
Actually,
we should even be thankful for them,
as if they don't receive your favor,
you wouldn't be able to give the favor in the first place.
But if we do something and hoping that they would appreciate it,
we would not be at all happy from the return of your effort.
Expect nothing and you will gain everything.
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